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Lessons From the Grass

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  A while back, I wrote a post titled The Grass is Always Greener.  It was my thoughts about motherhood while having one foot in the career world and one in the stay-at-home mom world. Not just the stay-at-home mom world, but the particular world in Utah, which I think is a little different.  The saying "the grass is always greener on the other side " is a euphemism for maybe not being happy with one's life, or that people always want what they don't have!  It kind of formulates this "I'll be happy when, or if...... " line of thinking. It also demonstrates pure irony because one might say "the grass is greener on the other side " when they know that it actually isn't.   I've mostly tried to take an " I'll be happy anyway " kind of attitude.  I don't need what I don't have, but I do think God gave me both the opportunity to stay at home, and to work, and why?  For what?  Maybe some women need both, and some don'...

The Divine Feminine

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  Let's talk about feminism........I have a strong distaste for it!  It's a plague, end of story!  Okay, I'm exaggerating a little, but there is truth in my feelings.  First of all, I'm all for supporting women and I'm all for women having rights, okay!  I'm not someone who believes women are only here to have babies and be a companion to a man.  I understand why women fought for many of the rights we enjoy today and I'm grateful for that.  I think what many women of the past were really fighting for was to be seen as equal human beings with value to all of society.  That we are more than just a body, a pretty face, or some kind of trophy you bring out to show high society.  Our value did not and does not just exist as a physical feature.  Feminism lost me when it became about women being able to choose any life they wanted....except for a mom and a wife.  You can choose to be whatever you want, but as soon as a woman chooses mother...

You are Home

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Another year has gone by!  It is Christmas once again!  December 18th marks the end of all of my Christmas parties, performances and recitals!  It's sort of a relief.  Now there's just Christmas, and this year I will work on Christmas again.  I prefer not to work this holiday, of course, and I haven't had to work on it too many times in all of my working years.  I started working at the age of eleven.  I didn't have an official job, but it was no joke.  I started babysitting regularly at eleven, and did until I got an official job at age seventeen.  What I do like about working Christmas is that it keeps me grounded.  It keeps me home, and it reminds me of what is really important.  When I'm not working on the holiday, it's all too easy to get caught up in the hype, fun, commercialism, and excitement of it all.  There's nothing wrong with that really, but I can get lost in it all.  When I work, I have the time to really in...

The Adaptation

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To adapt means to modify something to make it useful for a new purpose.  Adaptation refers to the process of adapting or being adapted.  In biological terms, adaptation is the process of change in an organism or species to become better suited to its environment.  I personally believe that this process of change is an ongoing one for most organisms.  Environments change, so organisms do too.  Can you think of a time in your life when you had to adapt to a new environment?  Maybe you moved to a new house or a new apartment.  Maybe you lost something or someone that meant a great deal to you.  Maybe you developed a disease, or maybe something happened to you that was out of your control.  Would any of these situations cause the person, or human, to no longer be human, as in human species?  No.  No matter what happens to us, or what changes we go through, we would still be human.   We don't just suddenly change species becaus...