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Lessons From the Grass

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  A while back, I wrote a post titled The Grass is Always Greener.  It was my thoughts about motherhood while having one foot in the career world and one in the stay-at-home mom world. Not just the stay-at-home mom world, but the particular world in Utah, which I think is a little different.  The saying "the grass is always greener on the other side " is a euphemism for maybe not being happy with one's life, or that people always want what they don't have!  It kind of formulates this "I'll be happy when, or if...... " line of thinking. It also demonstrates pure irony because one might say "the grass is greener on the other side " when they know that it actually isn't.   I've mostly tried to take an " I'll be happy anyway " kind of attitude.  I don't need what I don't have, but I do think God gave me both the opportunity to stay at home, and to work, and why?  For what?  Maybe some women need both, and some don'...

The Divine Feminine

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  Let's talk about feminism........I have a strong distaste for it!  It's a plague, end of story!  Okay, I'm exaggerating a little, but there is truth in my feelings.  First of all, I'm all for supporting women and I'm all for women having rights, okay!  I'm not someone who believes women are only here to have babies and be a companion to a man.  I understand why women fought for many of the rights we enjoy today and I'm grateful for that.  I think what many women of the past were really fighting for was to be seen as equal human beings with value to all of society.  That we are more than just a body, a pretty face, or some kind of trophy you bring out to show high society.  Our value did not and does not just exist as a physical feature.  Feminism lost me when it became about women being able to choose any life they wanted....except for a mom and a wife.  You can choose to be whatever you want, but as soon as a woman chooses mother...